Listening Sheet for Leading Across Generations
Listening Sheet for Leading Across Generations
 
Reggie McNeal
South Carolina Baptist Convention
 
Introduction
 
Different generations now represent distinct _________________
 
Who are these people? A look across the generations
 
Five generational cohorts:

  • ___________________ born 1901 – 1924

  • ___________________ born 1925 – 1945

  • ___________________ born 1946 – 1964

  • ___________________ born 1965 – 1983

  • ___________________ born 1983 – 2000

  • ___________________ 2001 - present
 
These cohorts fit one of four types:
 
   GIs live the hero’s journey

  • WWII

  • GI Bill

  • Created “senior citizenâ?? experience
 
   Builders follow the _______________________ archetype

  • An _______________________ approach

  • Children of ___________ _________________

  • No rite of passage

  • ________________ averse

  • Middle ___________________________

  • Adopted seniors’ values

  • __________________________ leadership in a hierarchical organization

  • Organize ________________  like work
 
 
Baby Boomers pursued the _______________ journey

  • __________________ at the ___________________

  • The _____________________________
  • An inward focus tending toward _____________________ and ______________________

  • ______________________ parenting

  • In midlife, _________________ and _________________

  • Reshaped American ______________________
 
 
 Gen Xers are living the ____________________ journey

  • A ___________________ generation

  • Came on the scene as ____________________

  • Should have picked better ___________________

  • Latchkey kids

  • Marrying later/having kids later

  • Ambivalent toward _____________________

  • _________________________________

  • Risk takers
 
Millennials are the next ___________________ generation

  • The ___________________________ generation

  • Positive, upbeat, confident, self-assured

  • __________________ consciousness

  • ________________________

  • ________________________ spirituality

  • Work and witness in the world

  • The ______________ _______________________
 
Leadership with Builders
 
       “What happened to the world?â??

  • The workplace __________________________

  • Structure

  • Mass _________________________
 
       What Builders want from work and at work
  • Two things matter the most: the ____________ itself and the ________________ they work with
  • Want to learn new skills for ______________________ work
  • Want to follow leaders with a ________________________
 
       Builders’ contribution past retirement

  • Organizations ________________________ builders

  • The role of ________________________
 
       Providing leadership for Builders in the congregation

  • The Builder ___________________

  • Source of identity and strength: the _________________ group
 
   Will respond to leadership that:

  • Treats them with _________________

  • Does not _________________________ them

  • Does not ____________________________ their contribution

Leaders need to demonstrate competency in these arenas:

  • ________________________

  • Getting __________________________

  • ______________ __________________ system

  • Future involvement in _____________________
 
Leadership with Boomers
 
       The rules have changed – two reactions:

  • Dig in, _________________ change

  • ____________________ the new world
 
       What matters most: _______________________

  • __________________, _________________________ honored

  • Genuinely ____________________________
     
  • Be included in _________________________________

  • Culture committed to their __________________________

  • ________________________of work schedule

  • __________________________to try new ideas
 
       Some myths about Boomers:

Myth:

Fact:

 
Myth:

Fact:

 
Myth:

Fact:
 
       Some truths about Boomers
           Plus side:

  • ___________________-oriented

  • Driven

  • Willing to go the ____________ _________________

  • Good at ___________________

  • Good team players
 
      Caution

  • Not _____________________ minded

  • Uncomfortable with _______________________

  • Reluctant to buck ___________________

  • May favor __________________ over _______________

  • Overly _____________________ to feedback
 
       Providing leadership for Boomers in the congregation

  • Provide __________________ _____________________

  • Provide ______________________

  • Provide __________________________ orientation

  • Provide culture of _______________________

  • Provide ____________________

  • Provide _________________________ emphasis

  • Provide ___________________ ________________ opportunities

  • Provide __________________________ work

  • Provide ______________________ involvement
 
Leadership with Gen Xers
 
Xers work for _________________________

  • Learned to be _________________________

  • ___________________________ managers

  • Xers and _________________________

  • ____________________ vs. ____________________ authority

  • ______________________________ is key

What Xers are looking for

  • They want __________________________

  • They want connectivity

  • They want immediacy

  • Managing Gen Xers

  • Communicate with ________________ and _______________

  • Be a ________________________

  • Provide _________________________ feedback
  • Adopt an _____________________ approach to them

  • Evaluate ____________________, not process

  • Provide __________________________

  • Reward successes _____________

  • Support their ________________ __________________ plan

  • Pay attention to their _______________ _________________

Providing leadership for Xers in the congregation

  • Go to _______________________ on this culture (take others with you!)

  • Celebrate ________________________

  • Allow Xer  _______________________  to be different

  • Practice authentic _________________________

  • Connect them with ___________________________

  • Deploy them into ___________________ missions

  • Make them more _______________________
 
 
Leadership with Millennials
 
What Millennials value





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  • Launching Millennials

  • Don’t treat them like ____________________

  • Team them with more ____________________ workers

  • Give them the ________________ they’re used to

  • Turn them into ______________________

 

    Providing leadership with Millennials in the congregation

  • Give them some ________________

  • Give them __________________ that is culturally relevant

  • Fund their ________________________

  • Deploy them into __________________________ projects

  • ______________________ from them
 
 
Conclusion: Become a GIBuildBoomXerMill Leader
 
  • _______________________ people on generational issues

  • ___________________ on ___________________

  • Manage by _______________________

  • _______________________ – everything!

  • Build _______________________

  • Create a corporate value of _______________ _________________
 
 
Learning Guide
 
   Interview a: GI; Builder; Boomer; Xer; Millennial.

            Ask them

  • What is important to them? Personally? At work? At church?

  • What motivates them?

  • How do they like to be managed?